So one of the habits my Rockstar has that I may have forgotten to mention in the past is that he doesn’t answer people’s questions alot. I think that this is not the way he was raised, since his mother tends to lean toward the kinda-awesome side. Perhaps it is due to the many years he spent as a single man before I came along with no one to respond to, or before that- the years he spent tuning out his Daughter’s Mother and her bitching. Whatever the reason for his silence, I’ve decided that it’s just not ok sometimes.
Yes, I realize that I tend to talk too much, and my excessive sparkly energy may be exhausting sometimes, so I do not fault the man for tuning me out on occassion. Hell, I would tune me out much more often than he does if I were dating me. That is why I put the important stuff down on paper, so he can read it at his leisure, and comprehend it at his own pace.
So, if you read my post yesterday, I’m sure you are all waiting with baited breath to read what my Rockstar had to say about my little note. Let me tell you. Nothing. He said nothing. In fact, I have ripped apart his entire desk-ish area looking for the damn thing, thinking that perhaps a flatulent wind caused it to blow away. I have come to believe that the power of my Rockstar’s guitar amps may have caused my little slip of paper to disintegrate, because there is no sign whatsoever that it existed. This makes me wonder:
Is the thought of marriage to me so abhorrent that he would douse it in ketchup, fry it up, and devour it, which then would cause my non-proposal to be digested and delivered to his colon, which then would result in a massive morning dump, destroying all evidence?
Is the fear of being stuck with me for all eternity so horrendous that he would dice my note up in the food processer and then scatter the remaining bits to the four winds?
Perhaps I am over-reacting. After all, it WAS only a suggestion.
I am not quite sure this is related, but as this has never happened quite like this and I have never before almost-proposed, I tend to think it is.
When I crawled into bed with no answer last night, my Rockstar proceeded to very roughly fuck the livin’ daylights out of me. For him, rough sex is quite abnormal. So then I got to thinking, maybe he’s just mad that I asked him first. I also thought, “Maybe I should propose more often.” 🙂
18 responses to “A Non-Answer: The Non-Proposal Sequal”
Ever think maybe it’s hidden away as a keepsake? & oh boy I could use a ravaging like that… Congrats sista!
I thought about that, but it’s not with the many other notes, cards, and post-its I’ve left him. And yes, the ravaging was very… fun. 🙂
It’s possiable that he is overtaken by his biology. His testosterone is TELLING him what to do. What would that be? Don’t respond, don’t rebute, don’t acknowledge and especially don’t say anything. Instead, maintain control no matter what.
In some men’s minds they think that “What’s wrong, we’re together aren’t we.” They live an a barren landscape of nothing needs to be said, nothing needs to be done.
Some men will be all to happy to ring your bells, and tickle your fancy but they are completely committed to one thing and they don’t even know it: I will not VALIDATE that person because that would definately undermine me. If you love him stick with him but since he can’t commit then keep your eyes open for another.
What a man he is…
Just to point out, I don’t really plan on going anywhere, and I’m perfectly happy with the way things are. Like I said, it was just a suggestion.
But HE was the one that said, “I’m either single or I’m married.” I guess if those are my choices, I would prefer married.
I don’t know what the message was, but there was clearly a message in his escapades.
Well, since you are a guy, I thought maybe you’d be able to help me with that. COME ON, JOHN!
I agree with John, not sure what the hard core fucking communicated, but he definitely was communicating strong feelings.
Was it “NONONONONONO!!!!!!!” ? I really would like to know…
Normally when Ben gives me a hard fuck, he is happy with me :s
Well, let us hope that your boyfriend and mine are alike that way then. 🙂
Maybe it was, “will you still want to marry me if I…..fuck you really hard?”
That would only make me want to marry him MORE…
That’s a rather special way of dealing with a proposal-suggestion. But you don’t seem to be too unhappy with the effects :).
I will never be unhappy after sex…but it still kind- of annoyed me that he didn’t say ANYTHING about it…
Yes, that’s not too polite… Cover him in post-its when he’s sleeping the next time. Makes it harder to not say anything about it.
Ooh! That’s an idea… however, I don’t think I’d probably get a good reaction to that.
I would propose every day if I was you 😉 … I am trying to come up with a none rude answer to this post ahaha :p … I want you to marry H.E.Ellis and you can adopt me and we can live in a castle ok?
That sounds perfect. 🙂